THEME BY PISTACHI-O
  • Hasbro: Let's make a new MLP cartoon for all the little girls to enjoy!
  • College Age Guys: Hey, this show is pretty cool!
  • Hasbro: Wow, you guys weren't our intended demographic, but that's cool! We'll just throw in some references that will make you feel more included and here, have some cool merchandise we know you'll like!
  • College Age Guys: Wow, thanks!
  •  ~meanwhile~
  • Warner Brothers: Let's make some new DC cartoons for all the little boys to enjoy!
  • College Age Ladies: Hey, these shows are pretty cool!
  • Warner Brothers: WELP. Looks like no one likes these shows, guess we'll just have to cancel them.
  • College Age Ladies: WAIT! We like them! And we'd love merchandise to show our support!
  • Warner Brothers: ....you're not little boys, why should we listen to you?
blueandbluer:

jumblejo:

velocicrafter:

stfusexists:

brooklynmutt:

Rich Jerk Tips 1% and Advises Server to ‘Get a Real Job’ via - Eater

I think I would literally snap if this happened to me at work. I think I would black out and wake up in the back of a police car covered in blood.
Serving IS a real job. It’s not a great career for most people, but it’s a job. I pay my bills every month from waiting tables. I’m supporting myself solely from what I make as a waitress while figuring out what I want to do with my life and working for free as C.O.O of a start-up. I know tons of people who support families on the income they make from serving.
I sincerely hope this is a hoax, because this is just appalling. Servers in every state besides Oregon and Washington are paid sub-wages - LESS than minimum wage. Basically nothing after taxes. Tip your servers and tip them well, because that’s all they get paid. You’re welcome to eat at home if you don’t like it.

the bolded, esp. the bolded + italics

reblogging again for the commentary.  because, well, truth.

What is this BULLSHIT?

blueandbluer:

jumblejo:

velocicrafter:

stfusexists:

brooklynmutt:

Rich Jerk Tips 1% and Advises Server to ‘Get a Real Job’ via - Eater

I think I would literally snap if this happened to me at work. I think I would black out and wake up in the back of a police car covered in blood.

Serving IS a real job. It’s not a great career for most people, but it’s a job. I pay my bills every month from waiting tables. I’m supporting myself solely from what I make as a waitress while figuring out what I want to do with my life and working for free as C.O.O of a start-up. I know tons of people who support families on the income they make from serving.

I sincerely hope this is a hoax, because this is just appalling. Servers in every state besides Oregon and Washington are paid sub-wages - LESS than minimum wage. Basically nothing after taxes. Tip your servers and tip them well, because that’s all they get paid. You’re welcome to eat at home if you don’t like it.

the bolded, esp. the bolded + italics

reblogging again for the commentary.  because, well, truth.

What is this BULLSHIT?

Re: This is why society sucks 

loveandotherhumanrights:

lukeiamyournigga:

I HATE when girls act like they get pressured to look a certain way, when guys are really the ones that have to look one way. Guys like girls that look all different kind of ways. But typically the good looking guy looks ONE way. Tall dark and handsome. Everyone wants to be tan, tall, and muscular. That is what men are supposed to look like. But girls get mad when guys want them to have flat stomaches? get the fuck outta here. 

I totally agree that there are expectations of men which are unfair. One thing I notice is that if a man is short, his manhood is literally put into question. That’s extremely bizarre to me. A good example of that is actor Daniel Radcliffe (Harry Potter). He’s short, and a lot of people worry about his acting career because of that alone. His decade of quality acting was not enough to silence people’s concern for his height. The tall, dark, and handsome archetype is definitely present these days. At least we can say that men are usually more physically inclined to be tall and muscular, as opposed to short and scrawny. Women are typically more inclined to be soft around the edges, not flat-bellied. Still, strict beauty expectations are rough on all people.

As a woman, I disagree with your statement that women can look many different ways. Firstly, my main issue with this is that you fail to notice a woman’s value is usually placed in her appearance (particularly her weight) ALONE. If you’re an “ugly girl,” your opinion is invalid, should quit on your dreams, and will have no romantic prospects. Men, though pressured to look a certain way, do not typically have their entire value determined singularly by their appearance.

Let me share some of the demands of girls which you didn’t mention. These demands don’t solely come from men. We have other women and the entirety of media/capitalistic industry to contend with.

THE LIST OF FEMALE BEAUTY DEMANDS
(which hardly scrapes the surface)

  • Be white.
  • If you’re not white, have a firm, plump ass and a sassy attitude.
  • Don’t be too white, though, or you’ll look like a sickly ginger, YUCK!
  • Be tan.
  • But not too tan, or we’ll forget you’re white.
  • Be skinny.
  • Be blond.
  • If you’re not blond, dye your hair blond.
  • But don’t be blond, because then you’re stupid.
  • So be brunette.
  • Unless your hair is nappy, in which case, get a weave or wig.
  • But don’t admit to having a weave/wig.
  • Natural red hair? Gingers are gross!
  • Unless they’re being fetishized.
  • Be skinny.
  • Have big boobs.
  • If not, they better be perky.
  • If not, forget about it, grandma.
  • Flat-chested? Get breast implants.
  • While you’re at it, get some botox, a nose job, liposuction, a tummy tuck, a face lift, a butt lift, and some lip plumpers. And some more breast implants.
  • Have smooth skin.
  • If not, take meds or use make-up. LOTS OF MAKE-UP!
  • But not too much, or you’ll look like a whore.
  • At least wear mascara and some eyeshadow, geez.
  • If not, you look too dull and unnatural.
  • Have long legs.
  • If not, be dainty.
  • If you’re not, it had better be because you’re athletic.
  • But don’t be too sporty. Muscular calves=NASTY!
  • Be shorter than men.
  • If you’re not, hunch over or pray for the day you meet a guy who’s 6’5”.
  • Be skinny.
  • Don’t wear glasses.
  • Unless they’re ripping off geek culture in an effort to be cute.
  • SHAVE!
  • If not, just EW, right?
  • Why’s it even on the list? Shaving’s the LAW!
  • And I mean shave EVERYTHING: pits, legs, and, YES, you’re nasty girl parts.
  • Pussy hair? GROSSSSSSSSS!
  • If you have even one hair on your body, you’re nasty as hell, OR WORSE, A FEMINIST (because “feminazis” don’t shave according to society, and being feminist is only okay if you meet all of the demands on this list and most importantly are SKINNY AND STILL SHAVE).
  • Wait, you’re a girl, but you don’t have a vagina?
  • You have a tally wacker? You’re a boy then? Trans* woman? WTF is that?
  • EW, TRANS DUDES ARE SO NOT WOMEN.
  • Be born woman WITH A VAGINA.
  • Most importantly, be skinny. No girl, trans or not, is allowed to be fat EVER!
  • If you’re not skinny, gtfo or starve yourself/exercise until you can’t stand, because you’re worthless without this quality.
  • REMEMBER: BE SKINNY!

None of the above-mentioned qualities are bad to possess, but those qualities being the expectation and demand is frustrating for women who are different. That would literally be 95% of the world population if we’re comparing women to a Victoria’s Secret model, for example. Though not exactly about beauty, I also wanted to mention the annoyingly contradictory expectations of a woman’s sexuality:

  • Don’t have sex because that makes you a nasty slut.
  • Don’t NOT have sex because that makes you a frigid prude.

If women play by today’s beauty rules, most women will never be deemed ‘beautiful’, and will therefore never be deemed ‘valuable’. That’s pretty fucked up, so let’s be real. It’s nowhere near as easy for women.

youcallme-sexy:

solideogloriaa:

I Kissed Dating Goodbye | Joshua Harris

rape culture bullshit.
this is so gross.
“your job is to keep your brothers from being led astray by her charms. please be aware of how easily your actions and glances can stir up lust in a guy’s mind”
“you can help by refusing to wear clothing designed to attract attention to your body”

MMM TITS
also i love how apparently only guys have sex drives and girls’ actions ignites them
um back in high school if a guy stretched and i could see his happy trail i can’t even talk about how turned on i would get
fuck your idea of sex being only a guy’s thing

youcallme-sexy:

solideogloriaa:

I Kissed Dating Goodbye | Joshua Harris

rape culture bullshit.

this is so gross.

“your job is to keep your brothers from being led astray by her charms. please be aware of how easily your actions and glances can stir up lust in a guy’s mind”

“you can help by refusing to wear clothing designed to attract attention to your body”

MMM TITS

also i love how apparently only guys have sex drives and girls’ actions ignites them

um back in high school if a guy stretched and i could see his happy trail i can’t even talk about how turned on i would get

fuck your idea of sex being only a guy’s thing


hellscabanaboy replied to your post: Often personally I get this kind…

I’m frustrated in general by the notion that characters are valuable based on their prowess or something rather than, like…their narrative? Male characters sometimes get it but people talk that way about female characters CONTINUALLY.

Yes it’s true, it’s like this weird profiling that ends up penalizing women supposedly in the name of empowering women.  It’s such insidious bullshit.

As if female characters have to carry this card summarizing their feminist worth or something?  I think it’s just another way of artificially boxing up the female experience.

 marnienotmadden replied to your postOften personally I get this kind of…

especially if one character is a proper EXAMPLE. anyone else who enjoys sex too much or doesn’t kill things or isn’t strong all the time or the list goes on is ACTUALLY DAMAGING TO WOMEN!

It’s absurd, as if the only thing female characters are good for are establishing restrictive and reductive ideals, and AS IF THIS IS FEMINIST TO DO.

 fallfromstars replied to your postOften personally I get this kind of sense …

Ugh I get this all the time in comics fandom, like why would Superman be with Lois Lane when Wonder Woman’s around, and it’s a trope that basically outs anyone who believes it as a sexist. SIGH.

UGH ARE YOU SERIOUS that’s disgusting.  Yes, because that’s what love is about, validating one’s “feminist cred”.  Yes, because that is what being a Strong Woman is about, being worthy of male romantic/sexual attention.  GAG ME WITH A SPOON.

ellenfanshaw asked: Often personally I get this kind of sense of--'well, why do you need HER' re: women who don't necessarily break out of their positions. Well, you have this other woman and she's fabulous and strong and blah blah so why do you need this obviously weak counterpart? Like reading's this essentially aspirational experience and not only that but everyone's aspirations are the same, so if you have a Strong Lead, why do you NEED anyone else because a Strong Lady is the ultimate placeholder for women.

I think this idea that there is some kind of quota element or any kind of onus to reduce female presence to absolute “necessity” is absolute bunk.  I don’t get how anyone with common sense and rational thinking capacity can come to this sort of conclusion.  SORRY BUT NOT SORRY YOU HAVE BEEN BRAINWASHED.

When the fucking fuck does anyone ever apply this kind of asstastic litmus test to male characters.  OH RIGHT NEVER.

God forbid we are ever interested in women because they are people.  HEAVEN FOREFEND.

I want a permanent moratoriam on the words: 

  • shriek(ing)
  • shrill
  • shrew(ish)
  • nag(ging)
  • harpy
bitterbuffalo:

the-madame-hatter:


NOT MY COMRADES on Flickr.
A collage of despicable things said by radical men who are NOT my comrades.

Word.

Oh my, I have encountered Mr ‘This Is A Class Issue’ many many times… 

God I HATE Mr ‘This Is A Class Issue’ SFM.  I hate all these guys, actually.  Suck my nonexistent dick.

bitterbuffalo:

the-madame-hatter:

NOT MY COMRADES on Flickr.

A collage of despicable things said by radical men who are NOT my comrades.

Word.

Oh my, I have encountered Mr ‘This Is A Class Issue’ many many times… 

God I HATE Mr ‘This Is A Class Issue’ SFM. I hate all these guys, actually. Suck my nonexistent dick.