My Dear Lady Disdain

Onion. 27. USA. ENXP. Sagittarius, Virgo rising*. Liberal, feminist. I pull myself out every day.

*supposedly doesn't believe in astrology.

Welcome all, especially anyone from Göteborg, Sweden!!!

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My Life is so Hard by ~Goldfished




ASOIAF-family duty honor by ~RuaGall




kissedxfire:

So my recap for Episode 16 is finally up.

I know it’s really late and you all might be over it by now, and it is pretty ragey and ranty so of course I don’t want to open old wounds for anyone with this past episode, but if you didn’t like the Sansa near rape scene or the death of Irri feel free to leave a comment. I’m sure they’ll see it, quite frankly. 




ASOIAF is a series where the absence of mothers is a big deal. That’s it that’s the point.

So stop being basic about moms, fandom :(




  • Catelyn Stark: For all his silliness I like this Manderly guy.
  • Fandom: OMG CATELYN STARK HATES FAT PEOPLE!!1
  • Catelyn Stark: For all that I don't totally understand her I feel bad for Brienne and hope I can give her some companionship and purpose.
  • Fandom: OMG CATELYN STARK HATES UGLY WOMEN!!1
  • Catelyn Stark: I believe I can help my family best by staying with my oldest boy who fucks up when I'm not around instead of the two children I left in a safe castle surrounded by people who helped me raise them, because I dare to think my identity as a mother isn't about just cooking vegetables and changing diapers but also being a mentor to my son in his father's stead.
  • Fandom: OMG CATELYN STARK SUCH A BAD MOTHER SHE LET A WILDLING WOMAN WATCH HER BABIES EVEN THOUGH SHE NEVER EVEN MET OSHA THAT'S JUST HOW POWERFUL HER MOTHERLY SUCKITUDE IS!!!!!!!!!1111111111one



Like, who could possibly think that Cat left Bran and Rickon alone.

Like, is it too much to expect people to remember all those people in the Bran WF chapters that were not either Bran or Rickon?

Like, IDGI.

And ugh @ “How dare she go off with her grown son A MAN GROWN instead of stay with her two younger children”

I will never get you, fandom.  How do you do that.

Do you live in the 1950’s?  I am so seriously serious.




My latest Game of Thrones podcast is up! ›

nymeriastark:

Listen or die as Todd and I review episode six, “The Old Gods and the New”! 

Discussion includes: Defending Theon, praise for Ygritte, questioning characterization changes (particularly to Tywin and Littlefinger), the effectiveness of the riot scene, a little Sandor freakout on my part, criticizing the choice to kill Irri and the khalasar, speculation about the stolen dragons, and more.

Please leave us a comment on the site or iTunes if you enjoy our show :) 

Any constructive criticism is welcome.




‘Game of Thrones’ thoughts, Season Two, Episode Six: “The Old Gods and the New”




apostrophus asked: Littlefinger

“Brown Penny” by W.B. Yeats
└ Petyr Baelish, A Song of Ice and Fire

I whispered, ‘I am too young,’
And then, ‘I am old enough’;
Wherefore I threw a penny
To find out if I might love.
‘Go and love, go and love, young man,
If the lady be young and fair.’
Ah, penny, brown penny, brown penny,
I am looped in the loops of her hair.

O love is the crooked thing,
There is nobody wise enough
To find out all that is in it,
For he would be thinking of love
Till the stars had run away
And the shadows eaten the moon.
Ah, penny, brown penny, brown penny,
One cannot begin it too soon.



My mind is on ships tonight so this is kind of a Petyr/Cat poem; if you were in the mood for something else drop me another ask! But what I like about this poem is that it’s more about loving as a worthy life occupation in itself, rather than the object of love. That combined with the idea of love as a gamble (heads, go for it, tails, don’t) and the speaker wondering if he is too young fit my picture of a young Petyr Baelish as he’s deciding to challenge Brandon Stark to a duel for an idealized object of love. It’s the moment of decision put into the hands of fate, ultimately because it’s just too complicated to decide any other way, but must be decided nevertheless before it’s too late.




pitselly asked: Bran Stark

“Being But Men” by Dylan Thomas
└ Bran Stark, A Song of Ice and Fire

Being but men, we walked into the trees
Afraid, letting our syllables be soft
For fear of waking the rooks,
For fear of coming
Noiselessly into a world of wings and cries.

If we were children we might climb,
Catch the rooks sleeping, and break no twig,
And, after the soft ascent,
Thrust out our heads above the branches
To wonder at the unfailing stars.

Out of confusion, as the way is,
And the wonder, that man knows,
Out of the chaos would come bliss.

That, then, is loveliness, we said,
Children in wonder watching the stars,
Is the aim and the end.

Being but men, we walked into the trees.



This is probably still somewhat premature, but I think it reflects a likely trajectory of Bran’s adulthood, going from a child wide-eyed with wonder to a man cautious and careful and far more confused.




AN: This does not claim to be a quality graphics set. This is for shits and giggles. If you disagree LET US HAVE A PARTY AND TALK.




My latest Game of Thrones podcast is up! ›

nymeriastark:

This one covers “The Ghost of Harrenhal.” Chock-full of spoilers, obviously. I’m actually scared to listen to this one bc we had weird technical difficulties while recording, and I don’t yet know how well Ty (who runs the site) was able to edit around them. So sorry if it sucks??? 

But please listen to it, and if you like it, leave us a review on itunes, or a comment on the site! If you have any constructive criticism for me, I welcome it. (I’m Jenny.) 




A quick note to the comment crew

boiledleather:

Rolling Stone has switched from a Facebook-based comment system to Disqus. Everything looks and flows much better now, you don’t need a Facebook account to comment, and you can include links. If you were holding off on chiming in, go forth and talk to me!